How to have a FUN family photo shoot! San Antonio family photographer- Sarah Lake Photography

How to actually ENJOY a family photo shoot with young children!

One of the benefits of being a photographer with two small children myself is that I already know what most children are going to do during a photo session.  Making silly faces? Of course.  Staring off into space?  Yep!  Picking their nose?  Oh sure.  Breaking wind and then laughing hysterically?  You bet.  I think I’ve seen it all.  (No wait…..  No one has mooned me yet.  That’ll probably be my son that takes that honor.)

I also know what it’s like to be a parent who WANTS a beautiful family portrait with their children, yet knows that “beautiful family portrait” and “children” can sometimes seem mutually exclusive.  And even though it can be a lot of work to “wrangle” kids during a family session…

I still love it.

I love the way kids look at everything and see only what is good, and funny, and awesome.  I love how they can laugh at nearly everything.  (When was the last time you laughed hysterically because you burped, or because someone said the word “pickle”??  I wish I could laugh more often like that!)  I love how much they love their parents.  And how they look at their big brother or sister.  It makes my heart happy.

I was so excited to make some long-overdue portraits for this sweet, silly, loving family.  What’s so interesting to me is how we as parents approach something like a photo shoot with young children.  Trust me, It is SO different from how your photographer sees it.  Now that I’ve been on both sides of the camera, I can say that for sure.

sisters laughing and jumping

When I got these two adorable sisters in front of my lens, it was nothing but giggles. Can’t you tell?? And I absolutely LOVED it. But I have a feeling that mom and dad were a little worried that they were being TOO silly, and that their one chance for a great family picture would be lost if they didn’t settle down. Can you relate?  (I totally can!)  The funny thing is, though, that their silliness- which I think made mom and dad a bit nervous about getting good photos- was the very thing that LET me capture some beautiful moments.  I loved being able to tell their parents not to worry about the giggles and goofiness, because it was JUST what I wanted to capture!  And i think it worked.  🙂

This family and these girls were a total blast to photograph- it was SO MUCH FUN.  But it got me thinking of how often we as parents worry about our children “acting up” during family photos, and this this made me realize a super important tip that can ensure parents have a FUN photo session instead of a stressful one.

Ready for it?

Here it is.  

My my super-secret tip for parents wanting to have great family photos…

Don’t discipline your children for that one hour of your session.  

That’s right!  Take an hour off of parenting and disciplining!  Let your photographer do it. It’s part of their job, in a way!  Since your photographer is an adult that trust (just like teachers and coaches) kids will automatically be ready to follow their lead.

As parents, let’s not worry about our children “acting up” or misbehaving during family photos- remember, if they can’t stop laughing and smiling, that means they are having fun!

So have fun with them. Be silly with them.  Enjoy them. And relish how sweet and loving and silly they are at this age.  What could be a better memory that that?!

(And I should clarify. I’ve never had ANY children “misbehave” during any of my sessions.  Act like goofballs, sure!  But misbehave? Nope. Not one. Maybe its because I’ve been lucky, but I have a feeling it’s because every family I’ve ever photographed has been a loving family with good, capable parents. If they weren’t, then I’d probably see kids that are screaming at me, hitting, cursing- who knows what! 😉  Remember, misbehavior during family photos is more of a parents’ FEAR than an actual reality.  Trust me, you parents rock.  🙂

Family posing for photo on brick wall

So, feel free to let your photographer be the “boss” and direct the kids– This should be your hour off from parenting and discipline! (And no, I don’t mean important parenting like teaching things like respect, manners, and kindness. I mean the typical child-wrangling that we do on a day-to-day basis.)  Your photographer can direct your kids where to stand, how to be still when needed, how to settle down, how to be silly, how to be quiet.  Let them worry about it and take a little breather for yourself!   Ask your photographer if you and your spouse/partner can stand off on the sidelines, so to speak, and let them work one-on-one with the kids for some great photos.  You don’t have to be far away- just going off 20 or 30 feet to have a conversation (or just pretend to) can be a game-changer with your children’s behavior!  Also, if your children see that you’re not really paying attention to them, they won’t feel the need to “show off” in front of you, and will be more likely to focus on what the photographer is asking them to do.  Also, it conveys to them that Mom and Dad trust this person, and expect them to follow their directions.  (Just think of how well your children act for other trusted adults- like their teacher! Because really, any parent knows that their children can behave monstrously at home, but like obedient angels at school. Take advantage of this! And as a former teacher, I can attest to this as well!!  😉  Let your photographer be the mom/dad/teacher/principal/coach/boss for that hour.  They can handle it.  Then sit back, relax and let the gorgeous images happen.

little girls with their dad, family
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San Antonio family photographer, Austin children’s photographer

I am by nature a creative, detail-obsessed, master procrastinator.  S0, it is a tremendous accomplishment that I managed to do something I promised myself (and all of you!) that I would do….  I CREATED MY FAMILY’S FIRST ANNUAL YEARBOOK!  Last fall, in this post, I recounted some rather painful instances of losing some precious digital pictures when some image files corrupted.  I then knew that I had to finally live by my own motto I share with clients and PRINT MY PHOTOS before I lost any others.  I had always hoped to take all the photos taken of our kids, print them, and put them in a painstakingly hand-crafted scrapbook, complete with overpriced embellishments, fancy patterned paper- the works.  (The key word here being hoped).  Upon taking a realistic look at our lives with two small children (and a growing business of my own) I knew I would never really have the time I’d wanted to take on such an endeavor.  So, I decided to settle for the less-personalized, yet far quicker option of paying an album-printing lab make my scrapbook for me.

print your family's pictures in an album

Man, am I ever glad I took that easy way out.

I used some album-building software I recently purchased and had created a 60-some page album in a matter of just a couple hours.  I used all those photos I’ve taken over the past year- most of them on my phone- and created the most beautiful family keepsake I could ever have hoped to make!  Now, as you can see, these pictures weren’t anything really special.  They weren’t necessarily wall-worthy portraits, or anything I’d brag about taking, but they were special to ME.  They all happened at those sweet, funny moments that made my heart melt, and made me go grab my camera in the first place.  I mean, WHY do we bother to grab our phones and cameras and take pictures of things anyway?  Especially pictures of our kids??  Hopefully it’s not just to have something to post on Facebook…  I think for most of us, it’s because there was something in that moment that we never wanted to forget.  Well, the only way you’ll truly NOT forget that moment is turn that electronic data into a real, tangible photo and print it.

family pictures printed in photo album

I managed to surprise myself again and place the order the first week of December and receive it a week before Christmas- so that I could give it to my husband as a surprise Christmas gift.

Ask anyone in my family- I am a HUGE procrastinator.  So if I can do something like this- you can too!  I mean it.  Even though the album building software I used made it extra-easy, there are half a dozen web-based services that can do this “designing ” for you!  In fact, one of them even calls theirs “automagic” layouts.  And that’s pretty much the truth! Upload the pictures you want to use, choose a handful, drag and drop them on the page, then click that magic button to have the app miraculously mix up the arrangement until you see the one you love.  If you want to choose one of these websites, to finally print your own photos, I’ve mentioned a few here.

For all of you who’ve had a digital picture “scare” and had fire lit under your heinie to somehow print your pictures so you won’t lose them forever, I hope this is another spark to that fire that will motivate you to finally do it!  My kids have LOVED looking at our first family “yearbook” and I know that in the years to come, it will be even more special to them.  And me too.

What are you waiting for??  😉

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Sarah Lake Photography- San Antonio senior portraits

Another one of my favorite senior sessions from our time in AZ!

What an incredible time I’ve been having with HS Senior Portfolio Building!  For this session, Emma and her younger sister met me at the gorgeous Brown Canyon Ranch- my favorite place to shoot.  The rain that had postponed us left us gorgeous yellow flowers all around, and left us not wanting for beautiful scenery for backdrops.

pretty senior girl sitting by a building
senior girl with her trumpet and yellow flowers
senior girl posing for portrait in black shirt

I really had an awesome time with Emma and her sis!  Although I feel as though I will always be a teacher at heart (even though met license has expired!) I truly LOVE creating portraits for families and wouldn’t trade it for the world!  But I think senior sessions are extra special- because I can have some of that interaction with kids that I miss so much! Teens (believe it or not!) are great- they’re smart, funny, sweet, and I love seeing their perspective on the world.  (Although, don’t get me wrong, I’m still not ready for my own little girl to be a teen yet!!)  Yet if she turns out as sweet as these awesome seniors I’ve gotten to know, I’ll be pretty proud!  🙂  Emma is pretty passionate about music- she plays trumpet in the high school band.  I LOVE the trumpet.  It has such a fantastic sound!  And I REALLY love how we incorporated her passion into her portraits.     

Hope you enjoyed these images as much as I enjoyed creating them!!  Stay tuned for more…

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Sarah Lake Photography, LLC: San Antonio Senior Portraits

This one of my favorite sessions on the blog, from back when we lived in beautiful Arizona…

One of the things I love most about living out west is the surprisingly beautiful surroundings. Having grown up in Michigan, I’m accustomed to leaves, grass, and everything green.  Like many, I pictured only rocks, sand, and cacti here before we made Sierra Vista our home nearly three years ago.  I had no idea how truly gorgeous it was here.  It’s been the most amazing place to grow my business in portraiture!

With the new school year upon us, it’s time for 2016 seniors to book their customized senior portrait session!  I am currently building my HS Senior portfolio, and this sweet girl was my first senior session this season.  We had to fight the rain to finally hold our session, but it worked out beautifully!!  The rain that postponed us also made the yellow flowers prolific, and we captured some gorgeous backdrops in our images.

senior girl posing with guitar in field of yellow flowers
senior girl portrait during sunset

I had the most wonderful time photographing Rachel!  She has the most amazing smile and was so comfortable in front of the camera- and it shows!  I am beyond thrilled to share these stunning images!

Another awesome thing about Arizona???  The incredible sunsets.  And we’re talking almost every single night!  I was glad I brought along my speedlight for Rachel’s session as it allowed us to capture a few images after the sun dipped down and gave us that amazing pink and orange sky!   {swoon}.

Rachel’s gorgeous hair and three different make-ups looks by southern Arizona photographer Hannah Whaley of Hannah Whaley Photography. For more information on participating in a free portfolio-building senior session for the Class of 2016, click the “contact me” tab on this website, or visit my Facebook business page:  Sarah Lake Photography, LLC.

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When’s the last time you PRINTED your photos??

In the past few years as I’ve grown my little business, one thing that I already knew but became more and more evident to me was how important it is to PRINT your photographs.   I’m always elated when clients choose to purchase prints, canvases, albums, and the like because I know that 80 years from now, those photographs will still be there- on their wall, on the bookshelf, in the hands of their great-grandchildren…  Once those photographs are printed, they exist.  And barring a natural disaster (God forbid) they will continue to exist for generations of their children and grandchildren to come.

Why digital photos aren’t actually photos…

Images made on a digital camera, or on our phones, however, don’t actually exist as tangible objects.  They’re mearly bits of electronic data that are retrieved through either the computer on your desktop or the computer in your phone.  Without this computer, how can we see them?  We can’t.  Have you ever had a “close call” with your computer or phone?  You know, that sinking feeling when you go to look at some pictures you took, and instead of seeing them see you see an “error” message or an empty folder where the files used to be…  A few years ago, before I started my business, the hard drive that we stored our family photos on failed, and we couldn’t find a single photo.  Not one.  They were GONE.  My husband is the computer geek in the family and can usually “fix” any problem right away.  So after seeing him fruitlessly search to recover these files, I felt sick to my stomach.  ALL the photos that we ever took of our first child?  GONE.  ALL the photos of our first few years of marriage, our honeymoon, our first house, vacations, family? GONE.  Had we PRINTED all those photos, it would not have bothered me as much that the electronic files were gone.  But we hadn’t.  I’d printed only a handful of them.  Because… (doesn’t this sound familiar?) …I had planned to print all of them one day and put them in an album or scrapbook, make a wall gallery, hang canvases in our kids’ rooms, and on and on… I had a ton of things that I had PLANNED to do, but never got around to doing.  It was a typical case of the cobbler’s children having no shoes.  Now, they were simply gone.  Never to have existed at all.

I will save you the suspense and say that, thankfully after a lot of sweating and praying, and about 2 days of hard drive recovery work on my husband’s part- we recovered those lost files.

However.

I just discovered a new glitch.   A couple of days ago as a matter of fact.  I went back into our family’s photo folders because I decided that it was finally time to print an album of all those photos- both the beautiful ones as well as the goofy, quick ones taken with our phones- so that we would have them forever, and so that we’d never have to worry again about losing all those memories.  And lo and behold, what did I see as I started choosing the images to add to my album??  THIS:

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Corrupt files?  Lost data?  I don’t know.  But it happened AGAIN.  Now, these are not (thankfully) the gorgeous custom family portraits that recently had done.  (I was smart enough to create 2 back-up copies of THOSE photos).  But all the silly, not-such-a-great-photo-but-awesome-memory taken on my phone??  They were ALL images that I wanted to keep.  They WERE photos that I wanted to put in our album so that we could look back on those ordinary, goofy, days filled with the very types of memories that slip by too quickly.  I just waited too long.  I find it ironic that when I finally chose to practice what I preach, my images are gone and I can’t use them.  Now images from my clients’ sessions?  I save them with three different back-ups!  But our own?  I guess I felt clients’ images to be first priority.  Now I see I should have treated ours the same way!

The moral here?  Hard drives WILL fail.  They have to.  They cannot exist forever, and the bits of electrical data that they store will be gone in a -POOF-.  So PLEASE (as my Dad jokingly told us when we were growing up), do as I say and not as I do!  Print your photos!!!  Those gorgeous family portraits that you hired a professional to create??  Get them off that disc or your hard drive and print them!  At very least print out each one in a 5×7 and then you will have them- they will actually exist as a tangible keepsake!  Don’t rely on those bits of electrical data- they don’t know these files are precious to you.

How to never lose digital photos again…

I’ve decided- for my OWN family- to finally PRINT all of those mundane ordinary photos into an album- a yearbook of sorts- so that we can always look back on those days and see the craziness, the sweetness, the laughter, the messes- all the good stuff that makes us smile (or will eventually).  Thankfully, it’s now, more than ever, easier to create albums like this.  There are websites such as picaboo, mix book, and adoramapix, that are just a few of the consumer album-makers available today, though I’m sure there are many others.  Each of these has auto-fill technology that takes all of your images, spits them out into an album design, and lets you tweak the arrangement to your liking.  Easy peasy!  Now, i wouldn’t recommend these types of books for wedding albums, or for gorgeous portraits that you invested good money in, as most are press-printed albums (like a magazine) and not photographic prints.  I also cannot speak to the longevity of the construction of the album.  So, for professional, archival photographic prints, I always recommend mpix.com (a division of Miller’s Professional Imaging.) However, I’m convinced, after years of procrastination, that these simple yearbook-style albums may be the best way for me to preserve all of those memories I capture on my phone, intending to preserve, yet failing to actually archive.  So I’m going to quit talking about doing it and just do it!

Having quality cameras built into our phones is a pretty awesome thing, but don’t let this convenient anywhere-anytime-picture-taking ability keep you from actually living and experiencing these moments!!  Capture those images instantly, but then print them for you to keep forever.

I hope this public service announcement serves you well, and lights a fire under your own tushie to print your photos and preserve your past!  As soon as my yearbook is finished, I will be sure to share it here.  Stay tuned!

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